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新加坡教育部最新报告，是关于家长与老师之间的对话。

As a parent, what's top on your list of questions to ask at Meet-the-Parent sessions?作为家长，在家长会上你置顶提问的问题是哪些？

Don't just ask about your child's grades because the report cards can tell you that. Find out how he's coping emotionally too.

不要只问你的孩子的成绩，因为成绩单本可以清楚的告诉你（ps.如果你不是文盲）。 同样要弄清楚他如何应对情绪。

Ming

Is my child coping well in his studies?我的孩子在学习上应付得来吗？

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Does he need extra help?

他需要别的帮助吗？

Angela

Is he falling behind on his work?他功课落后了吗？

From conversations with our teacher colleagues, they want you to ask:

从老师们的交谈中，他们希望你问:

王红

Do you (teachers) know what motivates him?

您知道是什么激励着孩子？

小明

Which lesson does he enjoy the most?

孩子 他最喜欢哪一门功课？

When you take an interest in areas beyond your child's academics, they paint a more complete picture of how he is doing in school.

当你对关注孩子学业以外的领域时，他们可以更全面地了解他在学校的表现。

Top 5 Questions

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Here are the Top 5 Questions teachers hope parents would ask them.

老师们希望家长问他们的以下五大问题

Is he nice to the people around him?

他对身边的人友好吗？

Does he stand up for his friend who is being taunted? Help his classmate who is struggling with an assignment, without being told by a teacher?

他是否为他正在被嘲笑的朋友挺身而出？ 在没有被老师告知的情况下去帮助正在苦苦挣扎的同学？

【新加坡留学吧】的建议

We want to encourage him to show kindness, care and consideration for those around him – to be a better person as he grows up.

我们希望鼓励他表现出对周围人的善良，关心和照顾 - 成长为一个更好的人。

Does he interact well with his friends?

他和朋友之间互动好吗？

Is he a good team player? How does he perform when working with his friends on projects? Does he share his thoughts with others, as well as listen to and accept different perspectives. When faced with a conflict, how does he react and is he able to resolve arguments?

他是一名优秀的团队成员吗？ 在与他的朋友一起工作时，他如何表现？ 他是否与他人分享他的想法，倾听和接受不同的观点。当面对冲突时，他通常会如何反应的，是否能够解决争论？

【新加坡留学吧】的建议

The ability to communicate and collaborate effectively are important skills your child will need for the future, so check that his teachers encourage him to develop communication skills early.

有效交流和协作的能力是你的孩子将来需要的重要技能，因此请尽早确认老师们是否鼓励孩子去发展沟通技巧。

What are his strengths?

他的优点是什么？

Beyond academics (which can be easily seen by his scores) are there other areas that he excels in? He may be an engaging presenter, or his classmates respect him because he leads them well in group tasks. Does he complete an assignment, no matter how much he's struggling with it?

除了学术（可以从成绩了解），他还擅长其他领域吗？ 他可能是一个有吸引力的主持人，或者他在小组任务中领导很好，同学们会很尊重他。 他是否完成了任务，不管他有多纠结和挣扎？

【新加坡留学吧】的建议

Discover what your child's strengths are, and affirm them.Your child's teachers will help in building up his confidence and sense of self-worth.

发现你的孩子的长处，并肯定他们。孩子的老师将帮助建立自信和自我价值。

How can I grow my child's interest in (subject)?

怎样才能培养孩子对课业的兴趣？

My child finds Chinese bores him, do you know some things he loves, to help me get him interested?

孩子发现中文困扰着他，老师您知道哪些事物可以帮助他去提升兴趣吗？

【新加坡留学吧】的建议

This is vital because when he has an interest in the subject, he will be motivated to find out more. Even if he encounters an obstacle in his learning, he is less inclined to give up immediately. For example, if he can't bring himself to pick up the Chinese textbook but loves music; why not introduce Mandarin popular songs as a way of exposing him to the language?

这是至关重要的，因为当他对这个问题有兴趣的时候，他会有动力去激发出更多的东西。 即使他在学习上遇到障碍，他也不会立即放弃。 例如，如果他不想碰语文书却喜欢音乐；这时为何不给他介绍一些国语流行歌作为接触语言的一种方式呢？

How can we work together to help him?

我们如何一起帮助孩子？

What can I do to help my child at home?

我在家里能做些什么给孩子帮助？

【新加坡留学吧】的建议

Discuss with the teacher on how you can best support him; your child benefits the most when what he learns in school is reinforced at home. If your child is in primary school, take time to read together with him to nurture his love for books. The habit of reading aids learning. Teachers are also curious to know what your child is like at home — so share with them your child's habits and behaviours that they do not observe in school.

与老师讨论该如何能够最好地支持孩子; 当孩子在学校学到的东西在家里得到巩固时，你的孩子会受益最多。 如果你的孩子还在小学读书，请花点时间和他一起阅读，培养他对书本的热爱。 阅读的习惯可以助力孩子的学习。 教师也很想知道你的孩子在家里是什么样的 - 所以与他们分享你的孩子在学校里没有观察到的习惯和行为。